How People Judge You

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How People Judge YouHave you ever met with someone and thought they were the perfect client or perfect referral source yet nothing happened?

Did you ever see a long-time friend at a gathering or event and give him a big, warm “hello” only to have him act a bit aloof or standoffish?

Has there been a time when you left a voicemail for or sent an email to a business associate only to have it go unreturned?

If you answered “YES” to any of these questions, the time you invest with me today will be the most valuable time you spend this week.

Each of the scenarios I painted for you describe a situation where your expectations do not match the actions of another person.

A meeting and no further relationship.

A warm greeting and a cool response.

A voicemail request and no reaction.

These are subtle cues that indicate something is wrong with you.

Yes. It would be easy to say the people in each of these scenarios are rude jerks who are acting with malicious intent.

In reality, that’s only a small percentage of the cases. Very small.

In most of the situations that unfold as I describe above (or in hundreds of other ways) this behavior is triggered subconsciously as a reaction to something you did… or more likely didn’t do.

That’s the issue.

Your failure to take action.

Whenever we tell someone we are going to do something, no matter how small the commitment, if we do not follow through with some action, we damage our relationship with that person.

Sometimes, the action can be as simple as calling them to tell them things are not going to happen as we would have hoped.  That’s still taking action.

People don’t expect everything to go right all the time. But they do expect you to take action.

This is how people judge us.

Did he do what he said he would do?

If no, did he do something?

If no, do I want to be around someone like that?

This is also the way we judge ourselves.


I want to lose 30 pounds.  I must exercise and eat better.

Did I exercise today?  No.

Did I at least eat a healthy lunch? No.

I suck. I’m never going to lose weight.

That leads me to the good news for you…

It is never too late to take action.

You can start now and still wind up achieving the outcome you desire.

To those people who did not respond the way you expected them to…

Reach out to the right now and explain what you are feeling and see if they will allow you to rectify the situation.

You can also take action on your personal desire to improve your ability to make a great living and live a great life ®.

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If you don’t take action, things will slowly deteriorate. Nothing stays the same.

In life, things either grow or they die.

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